all things womanhood, all things biblical

The beginning of the beginning. And so it begins. This portion, this subject, has been heavy in my spirit for some time. Intimacy, service, and worship. I cannot quite explain why I have so much to say about these things, but I do- and it’s in depths. My hope is to remain in modesty and authenticity. My hope is that my words would resonate with someone and in the same breath that it would point back to Jesus. There are many stories and poems to tell. welcome to all things: the ongoing essay.

intro.

Womanhood and the intimacy within marriage are my favorite aspects of my life. I love being a woman, and pursuing what womanhood is through God's word. I love being married and the spiritual benefits of marriage. I appreciate deeply the security that a Christ centered marriage provides.

Proverbs 31:10-31 is one of the most referenced scriptures on a womanhood and the stance of a wife. I did a deep dive on this portion of scripture. It's a beautiful proverb and living it out takes discipline, intentionality, and wisdom. These are the words of King Lemuel, which was taught to him by his mother. Verse 11 says, "Her husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life." The playful side of me giggles at this because an ongoing joke between David and I is that he doesn't trust me to not get pregnant, after 2 surprise pregnancies. In all seriousness, during this deep dive I made it my mission to actively apply these things and not leave it for a future to do list. I want to edify my household all the days of my life, starting right now.

Ephesians 5:22-33 and 1 Corinthians 7:1-16 breaks down the structure of a Spirit led marriage and the benefits of marriage. The beautiful natural order: Christ, the Husband, the Wife. The directions: "Wives, submit to your own husbands... Husbands, love your wives" The instructions: "Do not deprive each other."

May I say, I love that God made way. I love His instructions for His people.

There is a beautiful distinction between man and woman. Husband and wife. Male and female. A clear distinction that could never be erased.